I guess it’s only fair that I share a bit about me too…
The Person Behind the Ceremonies
I've always been the person family and friends turn to when they need someone to listen. The one who doesn't try to fix or offer advice. Ironically, I don't always find the perfect words; but I speak from the heart, with intention. I try to find the right words when they matter most. I'm not afraid to say that it took me longer than it should have to realise that being a celebrant could be my life's work.
My Journey to Becoming a Celebrant
I knew I wanted to be a celebrant in 2015 when we began planning my mother's funeral. I was 23 at the time, and my heart felt heavy. I knew the time wasn't right and that I needed to grieve before I took this step. For a long time, I thought I was too young. Then something switched and I started looking at the strengths I would bring to the role; the life experience, and I didn't want to wait any longer.
Me and my Mama
I trained as a funeral celebrant first (2020), drawn to supporting families through their hardest days. That personal experience of loss shaped how I approach this work - I understand the weight of these moments because I've lived them.
After marrying and having children of my own, adding weddings (2023) and naming (2025) ceremonies felt like a natural next step.
Photo Credit: The Storyteller UK
My Approach
I spend time getting to know you properly. Not just the basic facts, but the little details that make you laugh, the stories you love telling, the moments that shaped you. I'll ask questions you might not expect, and I'll listen to the answers - all of them, even the tangents and the "oh, this probably isn't relevant but..." moments. (Those are often the best bits.)
Then I go away and craft your ceremony from scratch. Every single word written specifically for you. When you read the first draft, I want you to feel like I've captured something essential about who you are. And if there's anything that doesn't feel quite right? We'll keep working on it together until it reflects you perfectly.
On the day itself, I'm the calm, reassuring presence guiding you through.
A Bit More About Me
I'm based in South Wales and work across Wales, the South West of England, and beyond. I share my life with my husband Tom and our young children, and we're the kind of family that always has something chaotic but lovely going on. We like going out for long walks with our border collie, Olive and like it even more if there’s a cosy pub at the end with good food and real ale.
When I'm not writing ceremonies, you'll usually find me with a coffee in hand (possibly my third of the day), bundling my children into their outdoor gear for another walk with our dog, Olive, or reading in bed with a hot chocolate (made with 85% chocolate and oat milk. Can only be described as “decedent”).
Me and my loves
Olive dog
My Training & Accreditation
I'm trained and accredited by Humanists UK, which means I've completed comprehensive training and I'm part of a professional network committed to the highest standards.
Other qualifications (in case we have shared interests!):
I am a Level 7 qualified Youth and Community practitioner. Another hat I wear is as a tutor for BA and MA students at Cardiff Metropolitan University
I have a Masters in Classical Culture and Ancient Literature from Swansea University. If I’d taken the other path at the crosswords when I was in my early twenties, I’d probably have a PhD in Ancient Literature (which is wild to think)
I have a Bachelors in Ancient History, which I hated until writing my dissertation during the final year. Only then did I fall in love with academia and writing.
I am Level 3 in BSL, and spent a year working with deaf people who only used BSL. It was a long time ago but I can still hold a detailed conversation in sign.
What Makes Me Different
I write everything from scratch. Your ceremony isn't adapted from a template or filled with generic phrases. It's written specifically for you, in my words but with your voice shining through.
I'm genuinely interested in your story. Not just the highlight reel, but the real, messy, beautiful journey that brought you here. The more I know, the more personal and meaningful your ceremony becomes.
I balance emotion with joy. I'm not afraid of the heartfelt moments - they're what make ceremonies memorable - but I also know when to bring lightness and laughter. Life is both, and your ceremony should be too.
I make the process easy. Planning important events can be overwhelming. I'll guide you through every step with clear communication, thoughtful suggestions, and absolutely no pressure. You tell me how involved you want to be, and I'll match that energy.
Let's Create Something Beautiful Together
If you're still reading this, I’m impressed!! Isn’t it weird how I can write about others for a living and then really struggle writing about myself?!
Anyways, if you’re still reading, you must be interested in chatting so drop me a message. I promise there's no pressure, no sales pitch - just a friendly conversation about your hopes for your day and what I can bring to the party.