Weddings & Vow Renewals
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life and you deserve to have your wedding your way, without compromise.
As a Humanist Wedding Celebrant, I will take the time to get to know you as a couple and then write and deliver a meaningful ceremony created just for you. It can be as traditional or non-traditional, formal or informal as you like. Your day can include ritual moments, singing, pets, cherished traditions (or not!) and anything else that makes it feel 100% right for you.
Every love story is unique, and your wedding ceremony should be too. Whether you're hoping for a handfasting under ancient trees, exchanging vows with your dog as ring bearer, or creating something completely unexpected, I'm here to bring your vision to life.
From intimate gatherings to grand celebrations, from tearful romantics to those who prefer laughter over sentiment, I work with all kinds of couples to create ceremonies that truly reflect who you are together. Because at the end of the day, this is about celebrating your love story in a way that feels completely and uniquely yours.
Writing Your Ceremony
So, how do we go from being strangers to me knowing all about you in such a short period of time? Well, I’ve got that down to a fine art. My role is to find out what makes your relationship so special, teasing out the stories, experiences and people who have made you who you are.
I’ll hear all about your journey together so far: how you met, your shared experiences, memories, challenges, and growth. Basically everything that has shaped your relationship and prepared you for this commitment.
Sounding daunting? I promise it’s not - it’s a genuinely lovely delve into what matters most to you. I’ll ask in advance how I can make the process as accessible as possible and we will meet wherever you feel most comfortable. Our conversation can take place over a cuppa or a glass of wine – whatever suits you best.
There’s guaranteed to be lots of laughter (and perhaps the odd tear) as I hear all about your story and what makes you work so well together.
The No-obligation Chat.
A free discovery phone call, virtual call or in-person “Cuppa & a Chat” to make sure I’m the right celebrant for you.
I’ll talk you through my process, answer any questions and just see if we click!
The “Yes - let’s do it” Moment
Yay - we’ve agreed to work together! A read through of the agreement, a couple of details and a small deposit, and your wedding date is blocked out in my diary. I’ll accept no other weddings for that day - it’s saved just for you.
The “Getting To Know You” Meet
I was going to say this is my favourite part, but I love the writing and delivering just as much, so I guess it's all my favourite! Anyway, this is when we meet (ideally in person) and I gently navigate a heartfelt conversation all about you.
I'll take the time to really listen as you share your story together, your memories, and the experiences that have convinced you to commit yourselves to each other for the rest of your lives. This usually takes around 2-3 hours, but it never feels that long!
The “Write Write Write” Part
Armed with my notes, all our conversations and a deep understanding of what you want from your ceremony, I put my music on and get writing. Sometimes it’s at my desk, other times at a coffee shop. Sometimes it’s in the notes on my phone as an idea or phrase comes to me when I’m out and about.
Once it's perfect, I'll send it over for you to take a look. Your script will include all the key information and stage directions you might want to know. Some couples like to see the full thing before the day, whilst others prefer to leave it as a surprise. Your choice!
The “You’ve Got Mail” Message
First draft complete and sent to your inbox. Set some time aside, and get reading. Ideally, message me as soon as you’ve finished reading so I can stop checking my phone every 2 minutes. THE most nerve-wracking part for me, but when the “we love it” replies come in, I’m not going to lie… life feels pretty good!
You'll receive your bespoke ceremony script with unlimited edits until it's perfect.
Crossing the T’s and Dotting the I’s
A call, or if you’re local, an in-person meeting allows us to tie up any loose ends, answer any questions and walk through any symbolic acts we have included. If you’ve chosen a handfasting, you can bring the cords or I’ll bring my purple dressing gown tie. I’ve pulled it out in too many public places to mention!
I’ll have all the professional printing sent off, and final preparations for the big day will be made.
Your Day
I’ll be there at least an hour before the ceremony is due to start. I’ll run through music with the venue and any live performers. We’ll check the song list, volume and test all tech-y bits. I’ll speak to those who will be participating in the ceremony, ensuring they know exactly what they’re doing and when. Dog ring bearer? - You bet I'll gently explain that they need to be a “very good pooch-o” I’ll double-check we’ve got everything we need and that the space is exactly how you envisaged it.
Calm, composed and in control - 100% ready for your ceremony.
Frequently Asked Questions
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First, get in touch via my contact form with your date and location, and I'll let you know if I'm available. Then we can have a proper chat (video call, phone call, or even meet for that cuppa!) to see if we're a good match.
No pressure at all - I'll never ask you to decide on the spot. I'll send you everything you need to know via email so you can talk it through properly together.
If you decide I'm your celebrant, I’ll be over the moon and send over the booking paperwork.
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I recommend booking 6-12 months ahead, especially for popular wedding dates. However, I've created beautiful ceremonies with just a few weeks' (and on one occasion, even days) notice when needed!
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To secure your date in my diary, I’ll require £100 deposit. The remaining balance is then split into two manageable chunks: 50% to pay once we start the exciting bit of writing your script (usually 4-6 months before your big day) and the final balance is due a month before your ceremony.
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Absolutely! I cover Wales and the South West, and I'm always excited to explore new venues.
I charge 45p a mile for any venues over 40 miles from my home (CF5). This is outlined on agreeing the booking.
Should I need to stay overnight in the local area, the couple cover accommodation. Again, this is outlined on agreeing the booking.
Questions Not Asked Frequently Enough (!)
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Absolutely! I love a little break from the norm and would love to hear your plans. If you’re having a destination wedding - let me know on the contact form and we can chat!